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writes: Sex, i would consider myself good at it. I have been told my BJs are good as are other things i do but i have a really problem with letting go. I can't let myself go enough with my boyfriend to really enjoy myself. Granted he is the first boyfriend that i have managed to climax with every time we are together. But he has told me things he likes and i was thinking of doing it for him because it kind of intrigues me too but i just feel embarrassed. What do i do?? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, salvation +, writes (16 April 2008):
Well why not instead of just doing it out of the blue you talk to him about it first that way you shouldnt feel embarrassed. Its hard to let go when your wondering will he like it will i do it right etc talking will help ya with this. Pm me if ya need me
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2008): have a few drinks before hand the next time you have sex, youll lose your inhibitions and that way he can learn about what you really want, after that encounter you shouldnt need to tell him again, it worked for me
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reader, daniellexxxx +, writes (16 April 2008):
Sit down one evening have dinner then talk about yours and his fantasys have a adult conversation of how and what you would like to do to eachother then take it from there, dont be embarrassed hes your partner and he will love you more for telling him.
Good luck.
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