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*ola717
writes:My boyfriend has this crazy ex girlfriend who told him she was pregnant after they broke up, she wasn't. They've been broken up for about three years and did not talk during that time. She found him on myspace a few months ago and gave him this whole "cry me a river" spill about how she's changed. She has since called my boyfriend on several different occasions, she sends him text messages and what not. I am just not comfortable with his renewed friendship with that conniving girl.I mean... I'm aware of the type of girl she is and I think she'll go to any means to try to get him back. My problem is, I think about her all the time. Meaning, whats her motive, what little trick does she have up her sleeve, when is she gonna make her move. You name it I've thought of it. Its to the point where I'm having nightmares about her!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2008): I can really relate to your problem, cos I HATE EXS with a passion!!!!! They are devious to the point of disbelief! You are right to be aware and wary. Have a chat with your bloke and ask him just what the hell is going on. Say you would rather she was pushed back under her stone and you cannot she any reason why she should be befriended again. Tell him exactly how you feel. But never talk to her about it, believe me, you will just put ideas in her head, that may not be there and the situation, will be worse.Honestly, mail me if you want, but i have been there twice and vowed never to go out with a bloke who had manic exs!! BUT always keep your cool, never lose your temper, just shout and scream in your own space and away from his or her ears. Hold you head up high and be strong and you will get rid of her one day when she tires. But if he is in contact with her, then ask him why, also point out that it hurt you and you would rather he didnt. But never demand that he stops or he will do it behind your back.
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reader, love-him  +, writes (16 April 2008):
 HEY !!
I know what you mean!! talk to your partner and ask him why he has renewed his friendship with her (if he has) and why not change his number? or is it on a contract? The only way i can think of, is if he ignores her.. she will eventually go away. If things get too heavy handed why dont you have a word with her (but im not too sure that would be a good idea because it could cause argument, but if your partner will back you up, then say to her, he is with me, leave it, because he isnt interested (that is if your partner wont do it himself..)
I hope i helped !! GOOD LUCK !! Feel free to mail me at any time x x x
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