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writes:About two years ago, I got into a relationship with a girl. We were desperately in love, I was for sure. But 2 weeks later we broke up, I said something that she took the wrong way and from that point on it was wierd. From that point on I tried to get her back a few times but it never worked. A few months later she got into a relationship with a close friend of mine. I wasn't hurt because it was him, it'd be the same if it was anybody. But a year and a half later, i'm still in love and would still do anything to get her back. There are times when it seems like they may split up, and there could be a chance of getting back in there. But then something comes along and the chance has gone, and it seems that the chance was very slim in the first placeI really need some help, i'm struggling to move on and would really appreciate some help from people who have experienced something similar or something the same. I need her in my life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008): ive been in a situation just like this.
but being the gurl in it all.
the guy i was with for just under 1 month loved me much and i knew that. but when i got with his best friend i felt awful, but i couldnt turn my back on the feelings his friend had for me & what i had for him.
Dont say anything to her move on because if you do say anything to her it could jepordise your friendship with your mate and their relationship wich isnt fair and you will end up looking the bad guy, and end up with neither of them.
your waiting around for them 2 split up but it dosent look like its about to happen so just get out and find a gurl you love more than her, trust me there will be many.
good luck..:D
myaz xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2008): i will tell u that go and tell her i love u and kiss her hands and tell her you will never broke with her again, if u love her do this .....
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reader, Ches +, writes (16 April 2008):
I take it this girl is your first love, and they are the one's that are the hardest to get over.
From what you have said I don't think she deserved you in the first place, your only young and you have a lot going for.
As for getting with one of your friends - thats wrong, he should of turned round and told her no, but obviously he didn't therefore he's not much of a friend.
Just remember when she sees you, she might be thinking I lost my chance there and you can be the one to gloat - you are 10 times the person she is.
You have to kiss a hell of a lot of frogs to find your princess xx
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reader, brooke5426 +, writes (16 April 2008):
 To be honest I think you need to try to forget about her. Mainly because she has been with a close friend of yours for 1.5 years so that makes her off-limits to you now. It was a bit different for him because you were only with her for 2 weeks but thats a pretty big relationship and theres an unwritten rule about your friends girlfriends/ex-girlfriends.
I think, (although you may not even realise this and its probably entirely subconscious) a big part of your attraction to her is that you cant have her. If she'd been single for the last year and a half i'm almost certain you would have moved on to someone else.
Try dating other people, keep busy, stay away from her for a while and get out there and meet other people. It doesnt need to be a relationship if you dont want it to be but just dating other girls could help you see there are more options than just this one girl.
Take care
Brooke
xx
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reader, binhquangdao  +, writes (16 April 2008):
 it's not that you need her brother you need the feeling that she has given you and you felt comfortable with that mutual feeling you have with as men we desire that feeling not the person you need to move on and find someone else when you sit around waiting you don't see the other beautiful stars in the sky that is shining at you. Move on she's doesn't love you anymore if she did she would of left him and come back with you. A female truly cares about her feelings and it doesn't involve your feelings. you dont' need her and if you show her you need it it's another reason she's gonnna push you away further.
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