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I really like him and hope that I'll get to date him but he's known as a player... how to handle the situation?

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Question - (16 April 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 April 2008)
A female South Africa age 30-35, *axine17 writes:

I really like this guy and he says he likes me as well but it doesn't seem that way. When I say I miss him he says he misses me as well and loves having me around him.

When my friends ask him if we're ever gonna date he says yes but he needs time.

He used to be a player until he met a girl he really loved but she cheated on him and he says he's over her but it doesn't seem like it. I really like him and hope that I'll get to date him... Please help I need to know what to do... How do I handle the situation?

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A female reader, Maxine17 South Africa +, writes (19 April 2008):

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Maxine17 agony auntLast night just before my mom picked me up from work I walked passed the place where he works and he came to me and we started talking. Only a little though 'cause he had to go and work again. I was one of my chatsites and I was talking to one of my friends that said that this guy was talking about me and going on about me to him (but the guy I like doesn't know I'm friends with this guy). So we'll just wait and see what happens.

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A female reader, muffy United States +, writes (18 April 2008):

muffy agony auntHaha,i had the same problem as you.I liked a guy who was a player but i didnt care cause he was just so cute and he said very charming things.So he asked me out and the next day,he dumped me.We went out again,and he did the same thing.Keep doing what your doing.Maybe hes trying to find out when the riight time is to ask you out.But just remember,you have to be careful.Hes known as a player and could say anything and not mean it.He could still be one deep down and break your heart.Hope everything works out.

love always,

Muffy

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A male reader, salvation United Kingdom +, writes (16 April 2008):

well i think if he needs space give it him but be there for him too. Everyone deserves a second chance but if you see signs he is playing you dont hesitate to let him go. Talk to him about the situation. It will work out. Pm me if ya need more advice etc

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