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Why are men like this or is this guy only like that?

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Question - (16 April 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 April 2008)
A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

He´s been away for a month and a half. And although he said he was gonna be in touch, It really took me by surprise that he send me a note today saying "How are things down there?"

I mean after all this time he just said that. I hoped for him to tell me how it went, etc.

Why are men like thism or is it this guy only, I don´t get him sometimes. I guess he was letting me know he was back, but I expected more......

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A female reader, dearkelja United States +, writes (16 April 2008):

dearkelja agony auntIt is possible he sent this one liner to gage your interest in him after this time had passed. Go ahead and engage with him and see where it leads. He probably doesn't want to say too much until he knows where you stand.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (16 April 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntSome guys are not good at communications.

They are only good at one liners.

Anything more than that is gold.

You will have to probe and dig into him before he can offer you more informations.

Not all guys are like him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2008):

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Ok, this guy is my crush. We've being communicating by email for 6 months now. He left on a trip and went back today. I was so eager for him to tell me about him.

I mean he was away for a more than a month and he always kept in touch.

Before he left I kinda told him my feelings for him and he said he was gonna definitely be in touch at his return, and that's what he did.

But he did it with only this line. Why is he so blunt? Or is it that guys are all like that?

Help me understand please!

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (16 April 2008):

Collaroy agony auntHi,

sorry, but you are not providing enough information to go by to offer any serious advice. Who is this man, your boyfriend your husband? please expand on your question.

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