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30-35,
*eela
writes:well im back AGAIN. Let me tell you my story then you can see if you can help me with some advice. Uhm its about a decision that i have to take or make.. Theres this girl that i want, but she has a boyfriend.. She tells me that she feels the same for me and that she is also crazy about me and that she loves me!!! What should i do? Should i wait for her? Oh and they have been dating for 2 years now! I'm thinking that we should stop texting and calling each other? Because we almost communicate everyday and every time we see each other we kiss... I'm actually feeling that i cant live without her but its beeter to stop it now then later because to be honest it really hurts being so close and everthing but i cant be with her..i tried to stop it before.. When i told her that we must stop she cried and told me that she needs me and stuff... But does she really need me?? I really need advice on what to do and to say to her.. I cant cant always be second in line when it comes to her i just cant and thats how it is now because she has a boyfriend!!!please halp!!!thanks in advance
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): The answers you have received are obvioustly NOT what you wanted to hear, but you must. You asked advice and I can tell you without a shadow of a doubt that she loves neither you, nor the boyfriend.
When you truly love someone, you would move heaven and earth to be with them.
I am guessing she is bored with her current boyfriend and needs reassurance and/or excitement.
I know it's hard to hear when you like someone as much as you do but take the advice for your own sake or the situation will bring you down.
Stop contact with her and go out and enjoy life like you should be doing at your age.
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (16 April 2008):
 Hi,
If she was mad about you she would have left her B/F to be with you. Move on and find someone unatatched, she doesnt sound worth it, with all the hurt you are feeling. I know its hard to give up, but you will get over this in time.
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reader, daniellexxxx +, writes (16 April 2008):
 Shes being very selfish if she loves you she would drop her bf (fast) What is she playing at she needs to make he dessision, Tell her to end it with her bf or your going to walk away and mean it dont be second best hun, if she loves you she will soon drop her bf but if not her bf really giving her what she wants thats why shes seeking effection from someone eles .
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2008): I've been through that tell be honest do not go out with her if she can do this to her current BF she can do it to you and it will hurt think about how the other guys is feeling do you wannna feel like that guy in a couple of years months or whenever she decides to leave you... don't do it move on.
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