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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: The man that I currently am crushing on is already in a relationship with another man. The other relationship is a long-distance, network-based relationship, which apparently had been in planning for some time. I am located in the same small city as the target of my crush. When I stated my affections to him, I was able to secure a date, regular visits, and even sex. However, he is wary of further sex, as he has feelings for his partner. His networked partner has visited him following a recent plane trip, and is liable to do so in the future on a perhaps a per semester basis.It does not seem ethical to try to take him from this long distance relationship, but I also enjoy spending time with him and would like to have more, well, sex in the near future. As such, I am not interested in ethical analysis - I am wanting to know how the following actions can be carried out. My own morality or lack there of shall dictate my choice of action.How do I stop loving him?OrHow can I get him to love me?
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