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anonymous
writes: Hi i really need help!i no a lot of people have problems about a "crush" on their teacher. but i can PROMISE you this is morebut the thing is i have never considered myself to be a lesbian but this teacher is the same sex.i cant stop thinking about heri really need help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoh thanks so much :]
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reader, rajnesh +, writes (17 April 2008):
hey xx
I just wanted to say that you are definately not a lesbian for having a crush on your teacher. What you may think is crush may just be some sort of infatuation or misconseption. You are not a lesbian until you have been sexually active with another female. so dont worry about it, everyone goes through this phase, however if ther comes a time when you do think that you preffer girls than dont worry there are many lesbians and you shouldnt be judged by who you prefer to spend your life with. Im sure that youre great person and at the end of the day that;s all that matters.
good luck in your future
xxxx
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (17 April 2008):
It's perfectly normal to have these feelings. Especially towards an older cool girl or teacher.
Everyone goes through periods of change during their teens as their hormones change levels.
Don't assume you are going to be a lesbian. You may never have feelings like this again, or you may keep on being attracted to women.
Everyone is different, no one is completely straight or completely gay.
Enjoy your crush until your next one hits.
Good Luck!! xx
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