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This guy likes me, but why won't he come out and say it?

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Question - (16 April 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 17 April 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, *reciousRose writes:

I have a guy friend who says things to my boyfriend like " I have a deep love and respect for (my name)" When he knows my boyfriend is not around he calls after a decent hour has long passed. We share mutual friends and when greeting us he will only hug me. It seems he is interested however do to my circumstances he won't come right out and say it. What gives?

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (17 April 2008):

Collaroy agony auntgood on you . Abusive boyfriends don't deserve to be in relationships.

give yourself so time before getting into the next relationship.

good luck.

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A female reader, PreciousRose United States +, writes (17 April 2008):

PreciousRose is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I have since broken it off with the BF due to the fact that it was just time to. The friend and I are still close, we talk all time. The BF was not very nice and he was in fact quite abusive. I'm trying to give myself time to heal and not trying pursue the friend. Thanks for your feedback everyone

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A female reader, PreciousRose United States +, writes (16 April 2008):

PreciousRose is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I have since broken it off with the BF due to the fact that it was just time to. The friend and I are still close, we talk all time. The BF was not very nice and he was in fact quite abusive. I'm trying to give myself time to heal and not trying pursue the friend.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2008):

He wont say anything because he has respect. You say he has feelings for you, yet you have a boyfriend. Why do you want the love of this other bloke if you have one already? Dont do this to your bf, that isnt fair. Put this other bloke right out of your head and move on and give your bf 100%. This will only end in tears if you carry on like this.

take care

xx

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (16 April 2008):

Collaroy agony auntHi,

I'm confused, you have a boyfriend yet you are holding out in hope that this other guy professes his interest in you.

Why? are you looking for an ego boost or to cheat on your boyfriend.

hmmmm. you don't sound like great relationship material to me if this is your M.O.

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