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41-50,
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writes:I was wondering, my gay lover is a good man, and he makes me love him more and more ever day but the the thing is im a jealous guy. So please give some advice. My boyfriend he is a friendly guy and and he has a lot of friend specialy male friends and i do too i even have more than him but the thing is: there is one of his friends that he always talks to all the time. And that friend is the pastor of his church. At the begining i didn't care at all whenever they talked on the phone. but right now it is a big problem for me because they call each others all the time everyday and every hours. if he wakes up in the morning and going to sleep that friend is the first one and the last one to call. the thing is whenever im with him, i never answer my cell phone unless if it's my mom. but everytime im with him, sometime the whole day with him, whenever his phone rings his the pastor, in a day they talk to each other more than 10 times. so when i ask him what is going why you guys calling each others like that, he told me it is because they are bestfriends and i said i dont believe that, i never call my bestfriend like that even you my boyfriend we dont call each others like that. so whenever i brought that friend up he always get mad. so Yesterday i was over his house so while he was taking the shower, that friend called twice and he left a voicemail for him so what i did is that i call my boyfriend's and listen to the voicemail that pastor left, do you know what the voicemail said, baby i just call you twice and you dont pick up where are you baby and when i asked why is your pastor calling you baby, he got mad and tell me that im ridiculous. so what do you think, is he cheating on me with the pastor? should i leave him? what should i do? plus i think he loves him more than he loves me. please tell me what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008): Okay it sounds like he might be cheating but that doesn't mean he is - it means he might be! I've had friends call me nick names and in fact one of them has called me baby on numerous occasions - and I was by no means cheating.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (17 April 2008):
 It seems he is cheating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2008): Of cause he's cheating. no body has pet names for a friend.
Good luck
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reader, salvation  +, writes (16 April 2008):
well it sounds like it but they could just be friends though i think after the baby thing he might be cheating i would sit him down and talk to him once and for all and if he avoids answering your question about the other guy then i would say definitely a cheat
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