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writes: We are on the edge of breaking up because we argue constantly, when we try and talk he puts all the blame on me with statements like you did this, you said that, you take over everything etc he never says we did this wrong or I did this wrong and whilst he is putting all the blame on me I don't want to talk as when I do I am the only one who accepts any blame or makes compromises. He can't even see he is doing it. How can we move forward or should I walk away? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2008): seems to me like you should walk away, he will probably be like this no matter what you do. you cant and shuddnt take the blame for everything that goes wrong in the relationship and if he isnt willing to compromise then he doesnt deserve your time
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reader, binhquangdao +, writes (16 April 2008):
sit down and ask him what is the true reason you are so stress out find the cause then try to fix it if you can't then move on.
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reader, daniellexxxx +, writes (16 April 2008):
Depends on how much you love him, If not much walk away but if you love him so much talk to him and just tell him how he blames you and doesnt take any blame himself, Then if he doesnt take any blame walk away he sounds selfish.
Good luck chick.
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