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writes:Theres this guy I like but he makes jokes about being gay, i know hes had girlfriends and he doesnt seen obviously gay but when ive said that nobody would think differently of him if he was, he says things like "nah i aint really, i dont understand why anybody would want to be gay" I do like him and i think he knows but what dont get why he keeps saying that to people if hes not? is he trying to tell me hes not interested or is this man humour? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008): It does sound like he might be gay and coming to terms with it. Not many straight men would joke that they're gay. He could be joking, he could be confused, he could be gay! I guess only he knows.
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reader, daniellexxxx +, writes (16 April 2008):
 its ok hope it helped x
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx for your reply hun
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reader, daniellexxxx +, writes (16 April 2008):
I'm not sure but he sounds to me me like hes keeping feelings of his sexual nature inside, Because no man lies and says there gay as a joke all the tim he mite be trying to tell people but when they say oh noone would think of you diffrently he goes shy and denies it hes in denial.
When hes ready he will come out thats if he is gay. If not then he mite be tring to let you down gently as he doesnt want to hurt your feelings as he has a gf.
Good luck.
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