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writes:I've Met An amazing Guy And I know he would do absolutly anything for me! Hes In The Year above me in school but we dont go to the same school. We have been on and off since january and eveytime we get together i end up finishing him because im scared. But The Thing Is I End Up Hurting Him..:(eveytime i hurt him he still comes back for more.And im scared that one time he wont come back for more because he is fed up with me hurting him.hes the kind of lad that every girl dreams of having love her. and ive found him and he wants me!!I Told Him i Was Scraed and he said he didnt think it was stupid.. and asked what i was scared of .. if i was scared of sleeping with him or anything like that not to be he wouldnt pressure me into anything and i fully believe him! but what i am scared of is what people will say..but i dont no why.. but then later he said it is abit stupid, because i would never have a propa relationship or anything. but that he loves me.how do i stop him from walkin away from me? or stop hurting him? and stop being scared? Reply to this Question
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (16 April 2008):
 Hi,
I dont think you sound ready for a relationship at all. You are very mixed up with your feelings, and thats natural at your age. Its just a sugestion but how about just being mates with him first. Get to know each other a little bit, and then maybe a romance will blossom.
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reader, 09876  +, writes (16 April 2008):
 Hey,
Good guys are hard to find, and you've clearly found one. He keeps coming back to you, so he obviously likes you a lot! He wont pressure you for sex (which is very rare), so that means he cares HEAPS for your feelings.
Best advice I can give is never EVER base your decisions on what other people will think. Its your life, and other people have no right to judge you because its your decision and its you who will gain the benefits or suffer the consequences. I'm guessing he said it was stupid because he was starting to get hurt by the whole thing.
Go for it! What do you have to lose? Some people might think bad things of you, but who really cares if you end up having an amazing relationship with him!! It will be well worth it.
If you keep holding back, he'll walk away, and you'll end up regretting it. There's nothing worse then regret, because its the one thing you can't change. If you have a go, regardless of whether it works or not, at least you will know for sure, and you wont ever have to look back and wonder "what if"
Best of luck kiddo :)
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