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Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 and half months and we already had sex.

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Question - (16 April 2008) 10 Answers - (Newest, 22 April 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *BABYJOKER3 writes:

if i am on the shot and he cums in me more than once and one time the day before i get the shot is it possible that i could be pregnate?? he tells me that i am the first girl that he has never used a condum with me and that he wants me to have his baby i would love to have his baby its just every time a guy cums in me i never get preg. is there a possibility that i cant have kids? pleaz some one help me give me some advice i really need it ...

ps. thanx if you read and help me

his babygirl

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A male reader, previasc96 United States +, writes (22 April 2008):

WTH! You barely now this guy and you're letting him inside you with no condom? Did you at least go together to get tested for STD's before you started having sex? IF you don't want to get pregnant, use condoms. When he's gonna come push him off!

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A female reader, xapathyxrebornx United Kingdom +, writes (21 April 2008):

xapathyxrebornx agony auntfirstly your like 13-15, its too young to be honest think of what the other aunts have said

Secondly, WOW you've been with him a whole 2 and a half months and your not using protection? IDIOT! Your no where near knowing him enough. My best friend is 17 after 1 month she was trying for a baby, now shes 4 months pregnant and things are going wrong with the boyfriend.

How great.

Thirdly, being on the shot im guessing is the contraceptive injection - the idea of that thing is to STOP you from getting pregnant thats why your not!

Fourthly if your not you said "every time a guy cums in me" Have you even heard of S.T.I's?! The injection wotn prevent you from that! Plus if your not on the contraceptive injection you never know you may have caught - or catch- an infection like chlamydia which makes you INFERTILE

Fiftly - Do you want to be another common statistic?! people ook at you carrying a baby on the bus, roll their eyes and say "for God's sake not another one"?

Finally - you get pregnant - yes PREGNANT: thats how you spell it - i can 99% guarantee this guy will run for it the money you show him the stick with a positive result on it.

USE PROTECTION!

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A female reader, Wisdom Australia +, writes (17 April 2008):

Wisdom agony auntdear god! Someone tell me what is happening to our CHILDREN when they are doning things like this.

Darling, you can't spell pregnant.... Do you think it is a good idea to have a child??? Go and study,pay attention in class. Do someting with your life, Don't just become another baby machine!

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A female reader, lilmisse2424 United States +, writes (16 April 2008):

lilmisse2424 agony auntthere is a possibility of you getting pregnant. you are too young, and i do understand you want to have a baby. also, please consider that you are still young yourself. i would use condoms, and having a baby at your age is not good at because you could miss out on a lot of fun opportunities. so, the next time, please use protection for a long while until you are old enough, let's say a lot older than you are to really have and afford a baby. a baby at your age is hard to take care of and requires a lot of attention and money.

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A female reader, LC_2008 Ireland +, writes (16 April 2008):

LC_2008 agony auntStop having sex, you are far too young. I couldn't understand why you would want to waste your teenage years by having a baby. You are still a baby yourself. The fact of the matter here is that if you are asking all these questions about birth control and pregnancy you are too young to be having sex. You need to know all the facts, and protection that you can use and all the consequences of your actions.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2008):

Honey, what are you playing at? this may feel like the perfect relationship but you are too young to be having sex, let alone being a mum! Start acting like an adult and take responsibility because when you do get pregnant beleive me you will be so sorry. please start using proper protection and, at least until you are old enough, leave the baby ideas alone. enjoy your own life while you are still young. best of luck...XxxX

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2008):

Babygirl,

There is one thing I need to ask you, how old are you? You seem entirely too young to be thinking of getting pregnant. Secondly, two-and-a-half months in not nearly long enough to know someone to determine if you can spend your life with them... seriously.

Thirdly, if you're on "the shot," which I guess is birth control and not fertility medicine, you could still get pregnant. There is not any one single form of birth protection that has a mathematically 100 percent chance of stopping pregnancy.

Finally, to determine if you are infertile you need to be off the shot -- which I do not recommend.

You need to be responsible, you need to be more mature, and above all you need to stop and think. Once you have a baby it's damn hard to put it back.

Xan

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A male reader, binhquangdao United States +, writes (16 April 2008):

binhquangdao agony auntPlease use protection or tell him to pull out you're too young

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A female reader, fishdish United States +, writes (16 April 2008):

fishdish agony auntI'm assuming 'on the shot' is a form of birth control? obviously if you're on birth control you're not going to be getting pregnant, I don't know why you'd leap to that meaning that you were infertile, that's far-fetched. Maybe you can cross that bridge when you're old enough to take care of yourself, let alone others.

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A female reader, daniellexxxx United Kingdom +, writes (16 April 2008):

daniellexxxx agony auntYES you could be pregnant and why would you want a baby at your age your just being silly, use comdoms and stop testing it as when you do get pregnant and have a baby your stuck on your own with it and it's not good at your age. Use protection please.

Good luck x

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