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writes:Me and my girlfriend recently broke up about 2 months ago because she got scared because we were planning on getting married in the future, but people were making comments to her on how does she know we are meant to be because we are 20 years old and have been together since we were 16 and we both haven't been with anyone else. We almost got back together a month ago but it didn't end up happening because she wasn't totally sure yet. About 2 weeks ago she started IMing me again online and I thought it was nice because I missed talking to her. She found out I went out on a date with another girl and that scared her. She spoke with one our friends and told him that she is a idiot for breaking up with me and she realized she could lose me. She told him that she wanted to ask me out to dinner and see about getting back together this happened two weeks ago, and the day it happened my friend sent me a message and told me if she asks me to go to dinner to go with her and I asked why and he said that she is thinking about getting back together that last time this happened she was only 85% sure she wanted to but now she is 99% sure. But the one thing that confuses me is that night I got home and she didn't even say hi to me or anything online, and in the 2 weeks she has only talked to me like 3 times. I am just wondering what could be reasons that she just stopped talking to me. Especially since she was talking to me and then she said that she wanted to get back together to our friend then she just stops talking. So if anyone has idea please write back.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (16 April 2008):
 I think she didn't like the idea that you could be over her and find other people attractive. Her ego suffered. Maybe she had this friend ask you the question to see if you still liked her.
You need to call your own shots, and that demands that you look at facts, not words. The fact you have now is that she is not your girlfriend anymore, and she is not communicating with you. You can speculate a lot about the reasons, but facts are facts. You run the risk of waiting forever for a person who won't come back your way. So I think you should start dating. If she wants something, well, won't she please say it and lay the cards on the table.
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reader, daniellexxxx  +, writes (16 April 2008):
 I think she was scared of commiting for some reason she backed out. Then she got jelouse about you going on a date and realised she still loved you and she didnt want anyone eles to be with you. Talk to her about it and tell her if she wants you back to stop messing with your head as it isnt nice. What ever happens good luck and let us know.
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