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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for exactly two years. We split up for a month last summer, as things had got extremely difficult. After some persuasion, a lot of love, and a great deal of thought, i decided to get back with him. Only to find myself more in love that ever before. Bliss.He became much more attentive of my needs, apologised perfusley about what had gone on before, and put his all into the relationship. Everything was perfect. Just recently i got an email from a girl (randomly) telling me that he has cheated on me with her. So i'm pretty all over the place about what has gone on.With much evidence to suggest that he is telling the truth and this girl is mad, i believe him. BUT, the very fact that this has even came up, has made me doubt everything we've worked for since we've got back together.Now all of a sudden his behaviour has taken a down-turn too. He's turned into some macho d**k (all in the space of a week), and is quite literally behaving how he did when we were first together.I'm young, and have alot of life ahead of me. So i'm thinking of packing it all in to save me from more heart-ache. But i don't want to let go. I love him so much. I just don't know where we are going from here?
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (16 April 2008):
 This may simply be the person he really is and he is no longer willing to pretend for sake of the relationship.
It might even be that he thinks he doesn't need to bother anymore because you took his word for him not cheating, making him think he owns you and can do anything he wants.
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reader, binhquangdao  +, writes (16 April 2008):
 Pack up and leave don't stand around and be his lil woman he disrespect you're young and very smart about thinking about this but he doesn't deserve another chance.
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reader, GONZ91305 +, writes (16 April 2008):
 Well i dont know if where you are from this go like this when your single everything is good there are no rumors or anything but once you have a boyfriend everything goes wrong as if all the rumors in the world come at once. well it all depends on if you trust him and well remember that there all always people that just cant stand seeing you both together and im talking from experience but it has changed then there is a though......well goo luck and think about it twice befpre you do anything ok.
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