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writes:How can I fall out of love with my ex. We've been apart for over a year now, and yet my heart still sinks anytime I so much as see a picture of her. She still wants for us to be friends, but even though we can only communicate through MSN, I still wind up thinking about her days later, and all the while feeling miserable.If I'm ever going to be able to be her friend (which I suppose a part of me must still want), I need to lose my feelings for her. Is time really the only thing that can help? Because I feel like if I don't be her friend now, I won't be able to in the future. Please help.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (16 April 2008):
She is always going to want to be friends, girls always do. But that will just tear you apart if you still love her.
Tell her that you need to cut contact for a month so you can get some space and get over her.
No MSN, no texts, no nothing.
During that time you need to get out and have a great time to distract yourself. Meet new people, flirt with girls, make new friends.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, tick-tick-boom +, writes (16 April 2008):
 Yeah, I don't think you can make yourself fall out of love,
You could tell her how you feel then asks how she feels about that;
I don't know if she'd think that would spoil your friendship or she'd be cool with it but it would atleast get it off your chest.
If you only communicate through MSN then it shouldn't be a problem though.
Or you could find somebody else to fall in love with.
Good Luck! X
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reader, salvation +, writes (16 April 2008):
sadly people cant just fall out of love i suggest you talk to her and be honest about how you feel maybe then you can move on atleast then you will both be clear on the situation. pm me if ya need anything im here to help if ya need more advice.
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