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30-35,
*hoe_lover
writes:we broke up and now he said when were together for the last 2weeks i wasnt his top piority , he sed his life was in the order of Job , Mates , Football , Me and then he asked for me back i asked why he said that "because everything else was dragging me down, mainly it was the fact that i was all annoyed because it was coming close to me leaving the lighthouse and it seemed as if they didnt want me itt doesnt count for much, but it wasnt just u who i was bein off with" *lighthouse is where he works?i feel so crappy , i know his life is busy but i shudnt i be up there to , some one help?
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reader, shoe_lover +, writes (31 October 2007):
shoe_lover is verified as being by the original poster of the question i would like to thank dapone 1 and Ask Eve for thier help with my problem =)
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (30 October 2007):
 Hello shoe_lover.
Glad you wrote in, lets get you cheered up, bad news he lost you because you came 4 on a list what a plank, you should have been number ONE, if you are in a relationship you should ALWAYS, ALWAYS be the number ONE on lists, if any one put you lower than that then they are a PLANK, you should always come first because you are a SPECIAL person and if any one sells you short then they do not deserve to breath the same air as you,whats wrong with this guy he must be nuts.
THE list should have read, YOU,YOU,YOU, and last of all YOU, when your in a relationship if that person does not put you first then you are wasting your life with them, do not get upset, do not cry, he is not worth your tears,get out there babe and find some one who will give you the love you deserve,some one who does not have a list but loves you because you are the ONE for them, i really hope that you will find that special person, who will love and respect you for the special person you really are,then you can show the world how wonderful your love really is, now cheer up get out there babe and have the greatest time of your whole life.
Hope this help, Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2007): Well he needs a job, to buy food and shelter and stuff. But you should be next priority. I don't think you should challenge this. Or he be consider loosing job and become tramp, unless you willing to be tramp with him.Then mates and football.Good luck
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reader, AskEve +, writes (30 October 2007):
 We enter into relationships to see if we're compatible with one another. He's obviously got other things on his mind right now and just feels a relationship with you (or anyone) is way down his list of priorities right now. I would forget him and move on. No one likes to be dumped as such but don't let it get to you, you obviously weren't meant to be together at this time.
Eve
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