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36-40,
*ONFUSED_101
writes:I met this guy at a wedding but, his 43 and im 21, we had cemistry from the firts moment we layed eyes on each other. but the problem is his never been married but his got two children with 2 different women. Now he wants to meet up, should i or shouldnt i??? please help
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (30 October 2007):
 Well you said you have chemistry so why not. The girlsfriend are out of the question i see no problem.
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (30 October 2007):
 Well I think that you should do what feels right. I can understand your hesitation given not so much his age as his troubled relationship past but I don't think you can hold that against him really, not until you know what the reasons were (after all, for all you know right now the break-ups may not have been his fault).
Take things steady. Meeting-up doesnt equate to getting married or having children. Meeting-up is exploring how you feel about each other in a different enviroment and in any case you may find that the chemistry fades. By all means be careful but I think you will wonder what if if you don't try.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2007): Why not? So long as there is no girlfriend in the picture. Just make sure if you get intimate he wears a condom if he has a habit of making babies and leaving. Have fun.
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reader, leej  +, writes (30 October 2007):
Hey there
the adivice that i can give you is you shold not meet up with him,couse he is too old to be your boy friend and i think you are young and very attractive the some of you age can for in love with you.Also you dont know why he broke up with those two other women who has his two children, and if he can brek up with those two without a genuine reason what makes you think he cant do it to you.
LEE
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