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writes: M fiance broke up with me just over a fortnight ago, the reason being, she felt I had jealousy issues and did not do enough for her son (even though we do not live together) I tried to get her to change her mind, but when she stated that her decision was final I decided to cut contact with her and try to move on. She called last night to make arrangements to drop some of my things off at my home and we said goodbye to each other. However after I send her a goodbye text, she sent one to me asking me to meet her next week to maybe take things 1 date at a time again with no idea where it would go in the future. I don't know what to do. It seems like a reboot of the relationship. My question is this: should we start again this way after the hurt of the innitial break up or should we leave things as they are, bearing in mind that the issues we had with each other remain unresolved?
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reader, Collaroy +, writes (30 October 2007):
Hi,
If the issues between you two are still there I can see no reason why you should get back, they will surely surface again in no time.
Unless you can sort these out, what would be the point in opening up old wounds?
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