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*1976nina
writes:BF for over a year has told me that he is not emotionally and financially ready for marriage. We're both 31 years old. Does he mean that I am not the one for him and I should move on?
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reader, desirewhitefire  +, writes (30 October 2007):
 No, it means he's not emotionally and financially ready for marriage. Be happy that he admitted to it now instead of waiting until you are married and you two fall apart. Give him a little more time to get organized and his thoughts straight, it'll pay off in the end.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (30 October 2007):
 Hi,
not too much to go on here. But it doesn't necessarily mean he doesnt love you. How are things going for him? Does he have a good job? Things like this can get us guys down when we hit our 30's. All of a sudden the talk starts getting round to when are you getting married, having kids, buying a house. It's hard core, and a guy can feel pretty impotent with all these pressures around him.
I would leave it for a bit, dig deeper , if everything is going swimmingly in his life then he probably is signalling that all is not well in the relationship, otherwise he could just be getting worried about how he can be productive in the future.
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