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41-50,
*kken
writes:There is this new girl who has started in the office, she's a really nice person both asthetically and personality wise. I talk to her on msn about random things for at least a good hour every day. I've discovered that i fancy her a little on both levels, and when i see her in the office she always give a cute smile back.I'd like to ask her out but, i'm totally useless at doing so. I fear I may have come on too strongly already while chatting and put her way off.my question is: how do i make a move to find out if the feeling is mutual and take it from there?
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reader, Dazed & Confused  +, writes (31 October 2007):
Going out to lunch first is a good idea. Once there, see if she seems awkward or uncomfortable. If everything goes well and you don't get any feelings of awkwardness between you, then ask her out for a Saturday night. Ask her out to dinner and a movie (or drinks if you're both ok). She will know that this means a date and if she says yes, then go ahead and put on the charm! Only do this if you think that this won't ruin your current job.
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reader, Asexy +, writes (30 October 2007):
 Ask her to lunch. It's a nice noncommittal, office kinda thing to do. When you're there, you're going to have to make some kind of non-office kinda move (or you're stuck in the "colleague" mold). Be ready to tell her you'd like to be more, and be ready for either reaction (yes or no).
Before you do this, though, seriously consider whether it's a good idea to date someone you work with. If the relationship goes sour, what happens to your job?
Good luck.
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