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writes:I have recently started at college and i am really loving it.In one of my classes their is a lad, i have always found him attractive but he has a gf so i never went through with anything.He always compliments me on how good looking i am (which is a first) and he once sed 'When i first saw you i thought wow she's gorgeous, but then i had to remind myself i had a gf'. And now he is one of my closest friends and we always talk and have fun.We are both going to be doing a camping trip as we are doing the duke of endiburgh award. He told me that he wanted to play spin the bottle because then he'd be able to kiss me. He said that he wanted to see what kissing a pretty girl would be like.He told me a few days ago that he really likes me but hopes it is a crush because he wouldnt know what to do because he loves his gf.I dont know what to do because i really like him and he's really sweet and friendly. Help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou to both the comments given.
I have took some points into consideration, and have decided that i wont go through with anything, and what happens happens. Im fine with it.
To 'Asexy', he doesnt treat women like that cause his gf is his first gf. But i agree that if he cheats on her, then he will cheat on me.
To 'Nailglitter18, I agree with everything you say cept his girlfriend goes to the same school, i respect his gf so ill back off, i dnt want to ruin a relationship.
Thankyou again
XxX
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reader, nailglitter18  +, writes (31 October 2007):
 It sounds like he's playing you. Do you respect his girlfriend? If she doesn't go to that school, then chances are, they have a distance relationship. Distance is hard enough without temptation. If he says he loves his girlfriend, then back off and don't tempt him. Whether or not he likes you, he is TABOO. She got him first.
If he decides to break up with her and pursue you, fine. But keep it in mind that he had someone when he met you. Could you end up being his "next ex girlfriend"?
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reader, Asexy  +, writes (30 October 2007):
 Look at how he treats his current gf: dissing her behind her back, looking to the next conquest before he's done with her. Now imagine that you're the gf -- because this is how he treats women. If he cheats with you he will cheat ON you. Don't ever fall for a guy who treats his current girl so badly. Good luck.
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