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writes:Himy wife is currently working away so for the past few weeks i have been going next door for tea each week. i have always liked the lady next door and more i see her i think shes giving signs to make a move on her. she was sat with her legs open and shorts on tonightwhat should i do,
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (30 October 2007):
 Hello.
If you live in Australia,how surprising is it to see a woman wearing shorts, letting the sun on her legs, you should not be thinking these though it may only be in your mind, what if this woman is only being kind to you because your wife is away, if you make a move and you are wrong, (WHOOPS) whos going to be in deep trouble, and the woman i feel sorry for is your poor wife, she working away earning a crust, and you are trying to play moms and dads with the woman next door, think some one needs a reality check.
You would be making the biggest mistake of your life, you should stop going around to this womans house and start thinking with your head and not your not your boomerang,your wife will not be pleased when she finds out about this event if you go through with it, for your own sake leave well alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2007): It doesn't sound like the sort of come on a woman would usually do. Shorts and legs open? We usually go for the more subtle 'cleavage and giggles' approach. Having said that, we can usually tell if other people are making signs to show they like us, so you should trust your instincts on this one. Why on earth are you having tea with her every night? That's the part of this I don't understand. Either a)your wife thinks it's a good idea to have another woman cook for you and arranged it beforehand, or b)your wife doesn't know. I suspect it's 'b'. Perhaps you should learn to cook your own tea....? Has it occured to you that by you going round there every night, you are sending her signals too. She no doubt lives alone and appreciates the company and attention your being there gives her. You are on dangerous territory and you both need to take a step back before anything happens. Which it will if you keep going round there every night. Haven't you ever heard the saying 'don't shit on your own doorstep?'. Best of luck X
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2007): Stay away from her sounds like a good idea. She obviously is trying to entice you. You have a wife remember!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2007): Learn to make your own tea. You might have to get used to it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2007): If you like the girl next door better then your wife, then let her know that. But I would reccommend staying fair to your wife and not cheating on her. Maybe stop meeting your neighbour or ask her about it.
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