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writes:Hi. im a teenager. I have this mind buggling question. It's about my boyfriend and I. we've been going out for about 4 years but he's studying in another country because his family had to relocate.it's about a year now. we really love each other, we have been plannin our future together. his course is about 7 years, mine is 5 years. I am about10months older than he is. i've had some liking for a guy,(Ahm) b4 he went but ignored it. he's asked me out and i gave him a chance so dat if i get to love him, we'll define it. the thing now is that my real b.f. trusts me and i do too. but now i feel i'm breakin his trust. i dont know wat to do; aboout him, Ahm, me. im confused.pls help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2007): so you should follow your heart and never follow your head and just break up with your boyfriend without in a hurry just tell your boyfriend that you cant move on and you loose your trust too him ...........
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2007): well you say that you love your boyfriend so it looks like your heart has already made its decision but you're young and you can always try different things. you could meet up with the new guy and see if there's any feelings there and if you think it's enough to start a relationship with him or not. i hope this helps! :) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2007): How old are you, and how far are the two of you apart? Four years is a long time and you should not just end it.
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (30 October 2007):
 Hello Jessie.
Do not blame you one bit, time for you to go out and enjoy yourself, if your boyfriend has been away for over a year, then you deserve to treat yourself,i really do not know how your going to manage for another 6/7 years, i hope all goes well with your new friend, then if you fall in love that will be great for you, you really do not now if your 1st boy friend as strayed, if he has do you think he would tell you, by the time he comes back he will be a total stranger to you, your far to young to waste your your time waiting around, go out, have fun, and enjoy yourself, your only this age once, hope it all works out for you.
Good luck.
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reader, PhilManco  +, writes (30 October 2007):
 As someone who tried to make a long-distance relationship work for nearly five years, my inclination would be to "take a break" from your boyfriend. Talk to him first, of course. It will be difficult for him, but it's better to be honest now rather than break his trust in the near future.
Relationships are like anything else: they need attention to grow. In my opinion, that kind of attention is very hard to foster in a long-distance situation.
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