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writes:everyone makes a big deal about age its only a number ... i know i don't have consent. but our relationship is great. We swore to each other that sexual intercourse wouldn't be brought into it. until i come of age. my mum is fine about it . My dad tried to make me split up with him. what should i do ? stay with him or end it like my father wants .. i need help my dad said if he saw us together he would break his legs and kill me .. :/ but i will keep fighting to be with him if its what it takes ..
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2007): If you love each other then that is great. Age has never been a thing with me so dont worry as long as you two dont have sex until you are over 16 you will be fine. Once your dad sees that you are happy and in love he should be ok but you will always be your dads little girl and he is just thinking about your best interests here. We all want the best for our kids and he is no exception. He just wants you to enjoy life before you settle down and you are a bit young yet to be getting into a serious relationship but if that is what you want and it makes you happy, then go for it.
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reader, Strippa +, writes (30 October 2007):
 I think if he loves you he'll call you when your older,
although i also think you are both really sensible to have had the conversation about sex & that shows that you are both really sensitive to your own situation.
Your Dad is only making you want him more, why would he be interested in a 15 year old tho is what your Dad is asking himself, you are his little girl & that is a male possesive thing that willl make him feel like sorting your fella out - could your boyfriend be a man about it & talk to your dad - this will at least show your Dad he cares about you & not just trying to sleep with you x
Good luck chick xxxx
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reader, I know what you mean +, writes (30 October 2007):
Hi, I think at that age then the age difference is likely to be a problem because you will both be maturing at different times and there will be a lot of change for you both. Your father is only saying what he does because he is worried about you. However if your mother knows all about your relationship and is ok with it and you two are both happy in it then there doesn't seem to be much problem. However if you think your father is serious in his threats then it may be a good idea to consider what would be the safest option for you both.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2007): I think it is fine, but remember your dad is only trying to protect you. You need to explain to him what you said in your post. If you love your boyfriend and sure sex wont be an issue then go for it but you need to explian it to your dad! Your dad loves you too and doesn't want you to grow up. My dad is the same.
...Megan
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