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He accuses me of cheating but wants to marry me!

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Question - (30 October 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 30 October 2007)
A female Trinidad and Tobago age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've been with my boyfriend for 9 mths now. He lives in Trinidad, i am in Tobago. he always acuses me of cheating and lying.

i love him so , he does also (he says so ) and i believe him, but that is always the reason for us to argue.

it hurts me alot to see that i'm commited and he thinks otherwise, then he says maybe i'm too young and very inexperienced.

but besides that he wants to marry me next year and to have kids.

i really don't no what to do.

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (30 October 2007):

Fairy_Lu agony auntHe doesnt trust you and thats already a bad sign without trust there is no love and no point of a relationship, my ex used to accuse me of cheating all the time (working 3 jobs and going to college at nights to pay for a flat because he didnt have a job god knows where he thought i had time) and it turned out he was cheating on me the entire time, so if he is accuses you all the time maybe its because he has a guilty secret.

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (30 October 2007):

Fairy_Lu agony auntHe doesnt trust you and thats already a bad sign without trust there is no love and no point of a relationship, my ex used to accuse me of cheating all the time (working 3 jobs and going to college at nights to pay for a flat because he didnt have a job god knows where he thought i had time) and it turned out he was cheating on me the entire time, so if he is accuses you all the time maybe its because he has a guilty secret.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2007):

Well you said you were commited. I can't see the problem here.

If you say youre commited, but then won't marry him. He's perhaps thinking you a bit of a liar, and now his imagination is running away with him.

Im a great believer in yes or no, in this situation.

Good luck

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A male reader, Moose56 United Kingdom +, writes (30 October 2007):

Moose56 agony auntI think you should say no. Your marriage will be hell if does not trust you. Relationships are based on trust.

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