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writes:I am currently participating in an exchange program with a school in Nuernberg, Germany (I'm from Atlanta, USA). The exchange partner I was assigned is a girl, who, I might add, is extremely beautiful. Not only that, but she's amazingly fun to talk to and very smart. Now, of course this sounds unrealistic, but her plane left for Germany today, and I will not see her again until the middle of next year when our group of American students goes over there to visit for a week and a half. Is there anything I can do to win her heart, or at least get a kiss? Two things I know that will probably have a large impact on this:1. She has a boyfriend as of two months ago. 2. Another guy who came here from Germany as part of the exchange group also likes her.
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reader, Andy00  +, writes (31 October 2007):
 Well, I take it you mean; If she is no longer with her boyfriend, could you try to get something then?
So long as she is single, then I suppose you could try. But even though at that time she may be single, it doesn't change the distance between you both, and that will prove to be a very large obstacle, and will put a great strain on the both of you.
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reader, s1lversapp +, writes (31 October 2007):
s1lversapp is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for your advice, yes, that sounds like the right thing to do. I need to simply let it go before anything gets out of hand.
However, when I go there in nine months, I'll be staying with her family. If she is not taken at that point, what would be a proper course of action?
Once again, thank you all for your advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2007): yeah she is taken, if she isnt one day, then you make your move.
you have to show respect to her current situation, but trust me, you will forget all about her in a years time.
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reader, Andy00 +, writes (30 October 2007):
I agree with Karlos. I'm all for trying to make Long Distance relationships work, but your situation is just far too much to take on. She lives thousands of miles away, and she has a boyfriend.
Give up. She isn't yours to have. You live in America, and from personal experience, I can tell you there are some gorgeous girls in America. Surely you agree there? Find somebody who is SINGLE, and remember that beauty isn't everything.
Best of luck to you, but please, give up hope here. It will just put far too much strain on you if you try to endure.
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reader, Karlos Omnis +, writes (30 October 2007):
 She has a boyfriend.
End of, you wouldn't someone trying it on with your girlfriend, so some respect and don't do it yourself.
Also she lives in Germany, that would be an extreme long distance relationship, and especially in the early stages this puts far too much strain.
Find someone single and local
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