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writes:Is he lying? Yesterday I was looking in the computer's history. It was not where you put in the web addresses, it was under the favorited websites, I guess there is an area that you can look at the history and I didn't know that. Anyways, I was looking at it while my husband of 2 months was at work, and it had this website of hollywood women like where they supposedly show them nude, etc. Then if I click on it, it will show what he looked at on that site and it was just one pic. of halle barry fully clothed, holding her boobs..then I kept looking and it had this website called treatsforgirls and I clicked it and there was a pic. of a woman's thong, and it had some writing on them that said "big boys only" I don't wear underwear, much less thongs..I am pregnant. So I know he wasn't looking for anything for me, also, I keep all of our money so he couldn't order anything anyways. He has no credit cards or check book or anything. And yes, I am positive cuz we're house hunting and the mortgage people pulled his credit up and told me what accounts he had and there are no credit cards. Anyway, when he got home I showed him and he said he remembers seeing those 2 pics. of the woman and the underwear but that he didn't go to those websites..we have pop up blocker on the computer so I don't see how he could have seen the pics. unless he was looking for them. Any ideas?
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reader, LIERIN +, writes (30 October 2007):
 Hm
Well..if no one else can use the computer, than he probably did look at it himself. Maybe he was trying to get you some "after pregnancy" present. Maybe he would like you to wear more sexy stuff ... guys like that. Or maybe it was just one of those stupid web sites, that you are interested in looking at, but with no side thoughts ... u know what I want to say?
I would just tell him, to tell me the truth, that you wont get upset.. but you would like him, to tell you streight why did he go on that site...
good luck
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (30 October 2007):
 Anytime you go on the internet and put anything similar on the address bar that might link it up to another site this can happen. If he is in fact looking at something like this which could also be the case it could just be natural male curiosity. Men do look at women. The gals weren't nude so that is a plus and you only found two.
It appears that you have a big problem with him looking at other women but stay positive here. Did you know that many men find a pregnant woman to be very sensual, beautiful ,alluring and even sexy? Stop worrying on it and try not to get to upset. Try to stay focused on being the best you can during your pregnancy and take good care of you and the baby!
Remember that he married you! If it still bothers you try to understand that it's a man's general nature to admire a beautiful body and he loves you. Set aside time for play and let him know that he is the object of your desire. He could be feeling a bit neglected. Sometimes this does happen.
You might even be feeling a bit depressed yourself because you could be thinking you don't look good since you are pregnant! Stop that you silly girl!! *Smiles* I am sure you are just as beautiful to him since the day he first told you so. Put on your best outfit and doll yourself up make a date to go out on the town and have fun. He won't soon forget the girl he married and will soon be the Mother of his child.
May God help you both to understand and be loving unto one another always. PS Don't forget to love from the heart and chasten from within with love.
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reader, elliebellie  +, writes (30 October 2007):
you should tell him that theres no point in lying. theres the history of what hes been looking at. theres no need to end your relationship over this but just tell him that youde prefer him to be honest.
lol
ellie
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (30 October 2007):
 Hello.
Please Do not take offense, but you are has they say,are making a mountain out of a mole hill, because you are pregnant and your hormones are slightly out of tilt, you are seeing thing out of context, (no offense intended)why would it be wrong of your husband to look at a picture of a clothed movie star, i do not think he would be buying the thong for her?, if you have control of the accounts then how can he be buying these things?, as for the pop up blockers, it depends what type of browser you have and the security system on your machine, if you let me now i will tell you how, but why would you want to get yourself upset over nothing, i would take what your husband said as truthful, after all you are having his baby, surely that must mean something to you both.
good luck to you both with the baby.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2007): Sounds like he's fantasising.
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