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anonymous
writes:Question for men.. do men realise they really like someone after they get dumped??May sound like a silly question but I had to break up with someone i really like because he wasnt sure about whether he wanted a relationship, just wondering if men wake up to the fact that they are really into someone when that person isnt there anymore because the girl becomes unavailable again and men enjoy the chase. Obviously it depends on how much he likes me but is is human nature to want what you cant have. any opinions would be appreciated. Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2007): well, i think it is ridiculous to break up with someone you really like. but, i see your point and i think time apart would have been a better method. i mean, he can react several different ways to this. he could be really sad and miss you and do his damnedest to get you back. or he could get mad at the female sex and go on a one night stand binge, never opening up. or he could keep up with his indecisiveness and never decide if he wants to be with you. heres the hard part, just let him contact you. dont make the effort for him. make him. if he wants to be with you, he can kiss up for a few weeks right?
best of luck
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reader, Asexy  +, writes (30 October 2007):
 All men are different. And many people of both genders don't realize what they have until it's gone.
If you have to break up with him to get him to notice you, then he's beneath your notice. You shouldn't have to go to such lengths. Move on and don't look back.
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