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writes:i met my ex about 2 months before we started dating. we hardly ever talked, and he was with one of my friends anyways. we hooked up over the summer, and dated for about a month. it was a fantastic relationship, and i thought we were doing really well. he broke up with me very suddenly, saying i was 'too clingy', even though outside of school, we only saw each other once a week, and when i asked if he felt smothered he said 'no'. he told me lots of things that i've found out are now lies, and we lost our virginity to each other. since he broke up with me, i've had a really rough time getting him out of my head! i've even gone on dates with other guys, but i just keep thinking about wanting to get back with him, even though we've talked (extensively) about it and i know he doesn't feel the same way. it's been over a month now and i need some tips on how to just move on.
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reader, darksecretangel  +, writes (30 October 2007):
 Hey like KoE616 said its obvious that you have feelings for him, but you should just move on, i know thats its going to be difficult because you have these feelings but think of all the lies he told you. Go out with your mates and have a laugh, you'll feel better and over time you will get over him. Take a break from dating because while you are feeling like this, you are going to be more picky about guys and you may meet someone that you really like but, you wont relise it until its too late. Also if you find that it helps write your feelings down in a book or keep yourself busy like watch a film that you really like or stay active. It going to take time and I hope that you will be able to move on.Good Luck xxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, KoE616 +, writes (30 October 2007):
 well you obviuosly have some very strong feelings about him regaurdless of how he dumped you, my only advice to you is to just try and forget about him just think of the way he dumped you and just think he's proabably moved on to bigger and brighter things just try and let him go think about the current not the past
hope this helps
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