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writes:I've had a woman say she NEEDS me to open up more. She says its a need not a want. And needs intimate details, to exchange with her friends.She's had a couple of failed relationships.I'm a bit unsure about this, so asked my MUM. She said i'm a soft lad.She been married for 60 years, and says trouble today is folks want to be happy 24/7. So they are.. I want, I want ,I wantShould I open up or listen to my MUM.Thanx
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2007): I can understand the need for intimate details between partners. However it sounds like this woman wants things to gossip about and wants to use you as a source. Intimate things are only to shared between two people, not her and all of her friends. Listen to your MUM and save your private things for someone who will keep them private.
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (31 October 2007):
 hello.
No matter how much you want this woman, to be telling her all your private business, and for her to pass it on to her friends, is no way to start a relationship, you do not want to be the gossip of you town or village, you said she had a couple of failed relationship, well i am not surprised if she is telling her friends every thing that happens, in her private life, i would be very careful of the information you do pass onto her she could only be the village gossip and you do not want to be a part of that, it is not my business to tell you anything, but my advise to you is not to get two involved with her, she will more than likely ruin your life.
hope this helps you.
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reader, nailglitter18  +, writes (31 October 2007):
 Do what you are comfortable with. Frankly, if your girlfriend only wants intimate thoughts to share with her friends... I'd question that!! Intimate is just that - it should be between two people. I wouldn't want my sig fig blabbering my innermost thoughts to his friends, just like I wouldn't tell his to mine.
If you don't feel ready to open up, tell her. She should respect that.
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reader, Asexy  +, writes (30 October 2007):
 Depends. Who do you want to be with at the end of the night? This woman ... or your Mum?
In the end, if a woman is telling you what SHE needs, believe her. Or she'll find someone who can give it to her.
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