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writes:hi,i'm a 22 yr female,a medical student,just completed 4th yr,internship starts in march,totally free till then.i have 2 very close friends of mine, nisha and mohit.both r going around since 2nd yr.mohit belongs 2 some other city,while i n nisha r localites.in d mid of 4th year i n mohit somehow started talking a much more than often(for 2-3 hrs)daily,i started liking him more than just a friend.one day he asked me out for a date,i was a bit surprised,anyway i went,after that we started meeting alot.one day i went 2 his house,we sat there talikng as usual,suddenly he hugged me n kissed me and said that he loves me,i didn't confessed my love to him,instead i asked him abt nisha that whether he has stoped feeling for her(after all he has promised her to marry her later)and he said he don't know anything he just loves me n don't want to loose me.next day i told him that i also love him but he asked me not 2 disclose our relationship 2 nisha as this will break our friendship,i agreed.but deep down myself i'm very deppressed and feel guilty that i'm ditching my very close friend,on the other hand i can't live without mohit.my sister says that the guy is two timing and just wants to get physical,although i don't have any sexual relationship with him but sometimes he touches me in an erotic way,nwa days he's in my town to attend our common friend's wedding,not getting time to meet me,but went out with nisha on a movie,didn't care to ask me also,although nisha asked me when by chance i called her,i refused,but i'm feeling very deppressed and paranoic,envious of nisha(though i hate to admit that)tel me what to do?
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reader, red1982  +, writes (19 November 2007):
I'm afraid that I'd be inclined to agree with your sister. This guy doesn't sound like he's trustworthy at all, and if I were you I'd stay well away from him.
Tell him that until he is single you cannot meet up with him. If he really were in love with you he wouldn't be with your friend. And she will be devastated if she finds out about the two of you.
I'm not surprised that you are getting jealous of your friend, as she is getting more attention from this man then you are if you don't stop seeing him now this will no doubt get worse and you may even find yourself disliking her, through no fault of hers.
I'm sure there are plenty of social events going on at your college. You could try to go along to them and broaden your friendship group. Hopefully you will meet a nice man who is free to love you back.
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