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writes:hi i need a bit of help with a problem i have slept with my boyfriends brother whilst i was VERY drunk and he is going out with my best friend i confessed to her because the guilt was killing me and we got that sorted they are still together but i cant get him out of my head....when i see them together i just want to throw her out the picture and i feel really mean for saying it coz we have been friends since high school but the thing is he has said he loves me and keeps spending more time with me than her although the clothes have stayed on i couldnt do that again the thing is should i be with the guy im falling for or let him down for my friend??
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007): First of all, calm down! And think carefully about what you are doing now. I think both of you guys are on the wrong track and in the end 4 people are going to get hurt. Even though he has said he loves you, he's probably said the same thing to your best friend. So, at the end of the day, you should stop seeing him and stick to your friend.
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reader, girlwhoneedshelp  +, writes (19 November 2007):
 Where exactly does your boyfriend fit into all this? If you don't want to be with your boyfriend then don't be, but do not stir things up with his brother. His brother is with his best friend and you are so unbelievingly lucky to have been forgiven. If you were my friend I think I might have pushed you off a cliff for what you've done. You will keep your clothes on and you will stay away. If you want to do the right thing you'll ignore what your best friends boyfriend is telling you and stay as far away from him as you can. If he makes this difficult then you tell your friend what has been going on and what has been said and then she can decide again if she should stay with him. Personally he doesn't sound good enough for either of you. After all he has cheated on his girlfriend with his brothers girlfriend. That's very below the belt and very twisted. I can tell you now that there is no amount of drunk that would even make me consider sleeping with someone else other than my boyfriend. Drink is not an excuse. You after all were the one who drank all the alcohol and decided to be in the state you were in the first place to have even been capable of doing what you did.
You should come clean to your boyfriend if you already haven't and then leave his brother alone.
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reader, girlwhoneedshelp +, writes (19 November 2007):
Where exactly does your boyfriend fit into all this? If you don't want to be with your boyfriend then don't be, but do not stir things up with his brother. His brother is with his best friend and you are so unbelievingly lucky to have been forgiven. If you were my friend I think I might have pushed you off a cliff for what you've done. You will keep your clothes on and you will stay away. If you want to do the right thing you'll ignore what your best friends boyfriend is telling you and stay as far away from him as you can. If he makes this difficult then you tell your friend what has been going on and what has been said and then she can decide again if she should stay with him. Personally he doesn't sound good enough for either of you. After all he has cheated on his girlfriend with his brothers girlfriend. That's very below the belt and very twisted. I can tell you now that there is no amount of drunk that would even make me consider sleeping with someone else other than my boyfriend. Drink is not an excuse. You after all were the one who drank all the alcohol and decided to be in the state you were in the first place to have even been capable of doing what you did.
You should come clean to your boyfriend if you already haven't and then leave his brother alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2007): Chances are you're just interested in him and vice versa because he's like a forbidden fruit. The majority of the time, the word 'love' is best taken with a pinch of salt unless it's proved by actions also. I'd do your best to avoid spending time alone with him and remind yourself that being attracted to him is immoral on many levels and that you should be really disappointed with yourself for sleeping with him.
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