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writes:I met this lad, we got to know each other then became boyfriend and girlfriend. When we did start going out then i found out he was tagged by the police for drug possesion and he now still smoking weed,im totally against drugs like that. I gave him the ultimatum me or the weed, he chose me but my parents were against me going out with this guy. I then split up with this guy as he hardly spoke to me after giving him the ultimatum.I ended it but then a few days later he rang me asking for me to give him another chance, i said no but he said he will prove to me that he loves me by not getting into trouble with the police or smoke weed ever again, i still really like this guy but i don't know what to do. Another thing is that from the first day we started going out he told me he loved me, he is 18 yrs old.Do i give him another chance or just forget about him, i would really appreciate some advice please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much for all your advice, i think i am going to give him another chance as i have realised that being apart from him has made me realise i made a big mistake dumping him, i really like him and want him back. I want my guy back! lol anyway thanx to everyone for your advice it has really helped. shortybabes x
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reader, pgissyd +, writes (19 November 2007):
 Nope the longer you leave it the harder it will be, cut him off now. Its for your own sanity as well as any thing else. xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2007): I think that everyone deserves a second chance in most circumstances, we've all be young at one point and some of us including me have meddled with drugs i.e, weed!!
A stable relationship and girlfriend could just be what he needs in order for him to keep out of trouble with the police.
My boyfriend was the same until he met me, i've been with him 2yrs now and he hasn't been in trouble since.
You will only do what you feel is best but personally i reckon he's worth a 2nd chance, if he fails get rid!!
Hope this helps x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi thanx for the advice, i want to move on but i don't know whether to leave it for a few months tho hun, but i said ti him that im not with him 24/7 so how do i know he isn't smoking weed when he is with his mates as i know what guys are like when they are with their mates.
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reader, pgissyd +, writes (19 November 2007):
Hi there, first of all... NO NO NO. get rid of tis guy. When he has been free and clear of drugs for a few year then he will be boyfriend material, but not now. Any drug addict can give t up for a day or two, but he cant jut stop ike that, none of them can. He is not worth it, move on. xx take care hun xx
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