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writes:Hey there, this is a mix of two questions really, um... where to begin... im 17 ive been with my guy ( whose 18) almost 6 months and we've had sex only twice but last night was fantastic and i cant stop thinking about it but my mum has noticed that im really figity but i cant exactly tell her its because im craving sex! because she doesnt know ive slept with my boyfriend, how do i tell my mum about it and how can i stop my self craving it so badly, its so hard to focus at college when i can think about and quite littrally feel is me and my bf having sex! please help!!!thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (20 November 2007):
You will always be disturbed if you don't do it again.I'm actually feeling very horny these days and can't wait to see my girl who's in another town.So find time and make love to each other then concetrate on your studies.You'll find it's a battle to remove such thoughts from your mind.Best of luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2007): You sound like a female who has fallen hard for a guy. That's great! Just make sure he keeps treating you in the best way possible and you both respect each other. And for goodness sakes, I hope you both are practising safe sex (condoms) and being cautious. As for your Mom, I am wondering 'why' you feel you should tell her you are having sex. I just find that highly unusual for a teen girl of 17 to say that. In reality, that's the last thing most teens would tell their parents. You could tell her that you and your bf are very much in love-she'll figure it out from there. Mom is no dummy. If Mom brings it up, then talk maturely and calmly about it. You may have to reassure her, that there will be no unwanted pregnancies, etc. As for craving sex, it's likely you are craving 'sex with him' rather than just craving sex, in general. That's not unusual to feel this way after having a incredible sexual experience. As for school, you'll just have to try your best to stop thinking about him and sex...period. I think over time, this feeling will ease up..right now your relationship is just in the throes of passion and newly discovered love. Have fun, but please...use your head.
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reader, Lordtone +, writes (19 November 2007):
 Wow - passionate! To be honest, I don't think there is much you will be able to do. There are a few times in life when you will get distracted for a period of time. This is definitely one of them. It sounds like (please excuse me if i am wrong) that this is the first boyfriend you have ever had sex with. This is a very exciting time for both guys and girls and it deserves to distract you from your day to day work. Obviously you don't want to get distracted for weeks but believe it or not, reality will kick in again soon. You will always remember this time of your life and that is why it means so much to you now. It is lifechanging, you just want to shout from the rooftops which is probably why you wanted to write this question in the first place!
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