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36-40,
*aogwan
writes:hey people just wanted to know wot to do...ive been with my gf for about a year now we do hava good relationship..but theres a few things that bother me and im worried it may effect our relationship..we gave our vrginity to each other.. I keep getting the this gut feeling that shes tries to hide things about her past from me..for example she told me about this fling she had with someone which i didnt like to hear bt she said they didnt much more then just kiss..but for some reason ive tried to ask who it was a couple of times and she always tries to avoid answering the question its like i know the person..i understand shes doing it for my protection bt its annoying at the same time as i feel like im going to lose trust in her..I dnt think she realises that i have noticed her trying to hide it from. do i say something to her about it or just let it go?[Moderator note. You don't say if it has happened during the time you were dating or before that.]
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reader, pgissyd +, writes (19 November 2007):
 This sounds like it was in the past, before you dated, she has told you you were the first, what more do you want? does it really matter who the person was? I know that sounds harsh and Im sorry, its not meant to but its hard to put a voice to words.
Seriously though, If my husband told me all the women he had anything to do with in the past Id probably explode, You dont need to know who it was, stop pressuring her and drop it ok?
And really, you would loose trust in her because of something that has nothing to do with you that happend before and wasnt even serious?
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