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Split up with my girlfriend, now I think she's had a one nighter with someone else, you can tell cant you?

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Question - (19 November 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 19 November 2007)
A male Canada age 41-50, anonymous writes:

in short..i broke up with my chick 2 weeks ago, been together for 3yrs, Love her alot, but we just fight too much, and were not happy.She was really upset. MISS HER LIKE CRAZY...last night i was talkin to a buddy of mine about it, and i was thinking i'd call her, he signs on to his MSN,,she says on her display that she's gone out for the nite..i wait..this morning at the gym, she walked by me and instead of glancing at me like she usually does she GAVE ME the wierdest freakin look ever, I Felt like WHOOOOW---she slept with someone last nite..Any of u guys out there know what i'm talking aboutI can't even explain that look...Going to the gym again tomoorw, is there something i should be looking for that will tell me more??Stupid question i know, and maybe i'm wrong , but it was just messed up up..Are there signs to look for

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2007):

If she can't look you in the eye or when you ask her she gives these crazy guilty looks.......but just ask her and see what she says!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2007):

soory i lost you..i just meant the past 2 weeks,,at the gym she would give me at least a slight :hey smile" but today she couldn't even look me in the eye. It wasn't a i can't be bothered look, it was a guilty look..I no she has no reason to be guilty...but i think i messed up and made a mistake breaking up with her...but we had many discussions about if we were with someone while broke up and we both said, we couldn't be togteher after one of us was with someone else..SHould i just ask her,,would she tell me the truth

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A male reader, SamuraiRick United States +, writes (19 November 2007):

SamuraiRick agony auntI'm sorry, but I think I lost you here....You're saying it was a LOOK from her that makes you think she slept with another guy? That's nuts! I think your imagination is running wild, and besides it doesnt matter. You broke up right? She's free to sleep around.

What's her MSN log got anything to do with anything. She could be lying about her message. Usuallly people don't say on their status: I'm out sleeping around!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2007):

okay first if you love her lots and miss her like crazy you shouldn't of broke up you should of worked it out...but you don't need to be on her case okay if she slept with another then she did get over it okay you broke up and yea i know it hurts and all but maybe she looked at you werid because you broke up with her okay MOVE ON okay find someone new and appreciate her

trust me

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (19 November 2007):

Collaroy agony auntHi,

You know you shouldnt even be asking this question? You've split up, she is now a free agent.

If you feel uncomfortable in her presence knowing she is having sex with someone else, then maybe you should find a new gym. You don't want to get into a contest where you both are seeing how far you can go to piss each other off.

Go out and meet someone else, leave your ex to get on with her life.

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