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writes:I have a secret relationship with a boy cause he has a girlfriend? He told me to be patient and wait for our relationship to get public? But i dont believe that much, so i need help? I love him. What should i do? Should i do something so he would stay just with me?
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reader, girlwhoneedshelp  +, writes (20 November 2007):
 Do you really want to be with a guy that is already cheating on his girlfriend? He obviously doesn't feel that strongly for you. He is a coward and should have ended it with his girlfriend as soon as he started having feelings for you. If he doesn't feel the same way about his girlfriend he would have ended it already. If he has the guts to go behind her back he should have the guts to tell her. If not, why haven't you told her? He is getting his cake and eating it isn't he? He is hanging you out to dry and making you wait. He holds every card and you are just waiting for things to happen. How do you know that he won't continue making excuses to not tell her? This is not the best of situations to be in. Go out and find a guy who's not already attached.
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reader, sexi  +, writes (20 November 2007):
 Hi
When i entered into the relationship with my current bf he was also in a relationship. He told me to undertsand that he has a gf but he would soon make a decision and chose between the 2 of us - So we had a secret relationship. He should only see his gf on saturdays b/c she stayed in another town and we lived in the same place but we hardly saw each other b/c no one knew that we had a relationship - our families dont speak, so the entire week he should call me (and probably her but he never saw) This started at the end os september and he kept giving me excuses as to why he isnt making his decisions (he is stressed,it if the festive season etc) eventually in January he ended it with her and we are together from then. I think you should make sure that he is serious about what he has said and that he isnt having the best of both worlds.I would tell you to wait as you can see in my situation it has paid off but only you would know how serious you r bf is.
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reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (20 November 2007):
 He's with someone else which is an instant issue, you shouldn't have got involved in the first place but that's besides the point. You say you love him, but if he felt the same way, he'd have left the other woman for you, instead, you're the secret? This is not right and if he's not willing to openly be with you, it's not worth it.
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