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writes:I have a friend with benefits that I have been involved with for at least a yr and a half. We hang out and spend alot of time with each other he say's that i'm different from other women. He trust me enough to have his cars in my name even have let me get close to his family. He depends on me like I am his women without giving me the title. I guess coming out of along term relationship I carried my actions as for as showing love to the man I deal with and treatin him like he was that king. My friend with benefits got comfortable with that and now doesn't like it cause i'm pulling bac, but if there's no future in us why steady include me in yo investments when you know friends is all we will ever be. I love this man and been only about him since the day that we started dealing and I know there may be other women but I have never ran across them. I'm confused as to what's going on cause when I ask him he always say u know u my boo. I'm clueless and jus tryin to figure out if anyone knows the reason that he gives me all this access to him if i'm not what he wants.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni've been dealing with this guy for at least a yr and a half we say were just friends he just paid cash for a new truck after selling 1 of his cars and wanted me 2 put it in my name. I know he can put it in his cause the 1 he jus sold was in his name but he tells me he's tryin 2 do the right thing. when I ask him what do I mean 2 him he jus says u my boo u know u my boo. he always tell me how i'm his best female friend and how he think i'm so different from other women. Me his mom dad and sister has bonded good I visit with them often and their even fond of my son. he expects me 2 do everything that his mom won't do anymore why is that but he won't give me the title of being his women. everybody else says that we are a couple we jus don't say it but whenever I ask him about it he jus says u know u my boo now cut it out. how can and what can I do 2 really know the truth
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (19 November 2007):
 You may not be the one he wants to marry, or he may not feel comfortable about making a commitment yet, but he has you right now so he's just covering his bases. Friends with benefits relationships apparently rarely work, someone always ends up getting hurt and feeling used. And by the way having his cars in your name works against you not for you, if he falls behind on the payments that can really screw up your credit rating. Did he do that because his own credit rating is in the toilet? I'd ask him to remove you from all his investments unless he is thinking about marriage.
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