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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007): You should know what to do easily. If you are asking this question is because you are not ready for that. Wait and you´ll know when is the perfect moment.
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reader, sexi  +, writes (20 November 2007):
 Hi
I think you should wait a little before you have sex. there are plenty of things that you can do for now. You can go to the movies, do your h/work together etc. i think that you should just wait alittle until you are fully educated in the topic of sex.
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, Blue_Angel0316  +, writes (20 November 2007):
 I read your post over twice. I am wondering why if you two are so close and have already waited for 7 years what is another 3-5 years. You can still be close and hang out. Date if you will but let your parents know. Let them be involved in your decision making at this point. When you are 16 or so you should be more mature and able to handle this kind of relationship.
If you find out that you really care enough about one another you can have so much fun just being the best of friends. If you realise one that it is love then you can move on to develope that kind of relationship with OPEN EYES , more mature thought. As we grow older and our lives begin to take more shape we sometimes change our mind on what is most important. Your feelings for one another could change or they could blossom into something that could last a lifetime.
Take things slower and give it time to develope naturally. Sex isn't everything! Live your youth you will only have one chance to do so. Don't limit yourself to one person until you can know that it is truely a real connection of the heart and not just a very close friendship which could involve sex. You are both too young to engage in sexual activity. Think twice before you do. It can cause all sorts of complications.
May God lead you both to the path you should take and show you the way. Wait and you won't be sorry.
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reader, hello1  +, writes (19 November 2007):
 You are 13! I'm sure most kids your age aren't having sex. Why can't you both just be kids? hold hands and kiss
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reader, bexy_cutebabe +, writes (19 November 2007):
hi there,I know that fighting feelings that you and your boyfriend have for one another is very hard as I have been there my self. When I was 14 I thought that I would never be able to find another man/boy that would love me like my boyfriend at the time, but when I had sex it wasn't fun or the big explosion that people lead you to belive to be frank it hurt and i didnt enjoy it. Also I found that I should have waited because I wasnt emotionally mature enough to handle all the other stuff that goes with sex and i dont think that at the age of 13 you can say that you are either. Also you have to look at the concequences of your actions (which i didn't). So please weigh up the pros and cons of your descion and make sure you are not doing something which is not right for you in the long run. I hope this helps you. all the best xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2007): U are very young to get involved with such a kind of staffs and deal with it's coinsecuences. So ... cool down and consentrate on ur studies and other more important things than this. Evrything will be great when it is done at the right time, And believe me u won't regret it that u waited for that right time. take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2007): You are way under age for a start and why are you in such a hurry??? This will be all the better once you two are over the age of 16. So stop trying to be adults and enjoy your youth.
take care
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reader, Kayleigh :) +, writes (19 November 2007):
 Hello :)This is very sweet.But no, dont have sex, the law is that you have to be 16+ to have sex. You may feel that you want to but you can't. If you ignore this and do please make sure you use contraception of some sort :).Make sure this boy isn't pressuring you into doing anything you don't want youHope i helped :D x
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