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writes:I understand communication is the key to any relationship. If I want to tell my boyfriend I'm insecure with out relationship, what is the best way to tell him. Letter? Email? Phone? MSN? In person?
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reader, Mistify  +, writes (19 November 2007):
 Hi there.
You might be more comfortable with something like Letter or Email, and He might be more comfortable with Phone or MSN.
However - the best way to communicate, is face to face. If you are fearing his reaction, then it is understandable that you would rather take one of the other alternatives.
Either way - you have to tell him, you have to tell him soon, and you have to break it to him softly. (be it by phone, email, msn, letter OR face to face)
Don't just blurb it out.
Discuss your relationship in general first, and then discuss where he thinks this relationship is going. Once you've discussed this, the spotlight will be on you, to answer the same question, and then you can be totally honest. You don't need to be brutally honest. Just explain as best you can WHY you are feeling this way, and if you want, ask him how you can both work to make this better.
Why not try and sit him down when you next see him. Tell him you want to chat for a bit, and then get to the point.
Good luck - let us know what happens...
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reader, shortybabes  +, writes (19 November 2007):
 It would be good to try and do it in person but do it the way it is easier for you to do it hun, not everyone finds it easy to talk to someone in person hun, if you wana talk just mail me hun xxx
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