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writes:My boyfriend really wants to have anal sex. Were going to try but im nervous. We tried it once before and we couldnt really get it in, it got in a little but it felt weird to me and i didnt like it and told him to stop. Since were going to try it again does anyone have any tips? I have oil we can use but its just baby oil, will that work? Can i hear about some of you guys experiences and if it gets less weird and actually feels good?Thanks for the help!PS is there a position that will get it in better?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2007): As someone said, if you don't want to do it, don't do it.
But if you do do it, get and read the book "The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women" by Tristan Taormino. Then you'll know everything you wanted to know about anal sex but was afraid to ask.
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (20 November 2007):
Considering yo age it's no wonder that you are having difficulties.Naturally your anus is smaller and tighter.If he's penis is more than average i'd recommend you abandon the idea but if you really are up to it use lube oil on your anus and his penis.Don't 4get lot's of foreplay and let hime finger you there before entering your anus.It'll surely feel strange and painful the 1st few timees but with more practise you'll learn to handle it.If it really hurts,STOP.You may injure yourself and end up with an infection you didn't plan on.
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (20 November 2007):
 I wouldn't recommend baby oil. Try some of that vaseline warming sensation lotion (it's oil based but better for that area)....and by all means, if it still feels weird, or uncomfortable don't go any further. The last thing you want to do is tear the delicate tissues in that area, and casue a multitude of health problems when bacteria travels into your bloodstream. Also, I would recommend he use protection. Some people really get into anal sex, but that "orfice" was not really intended for that purpose so you have to use extreme caution and protection. If it hurts, don't do it.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (20 November 2007):
 O.K. mate if you dont like it dont do it.
A lot of people like anal sex, but at your age if your bf is pressuring you he has some issues I say.
If he's not happy with having god's gift to mankind (the Vagina) then tell him to go take a jump.
And don't fall for the oldest trick in the book. That's the one where he says, " but its a tighter hole "
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007): hi, yes it does get better!get your bf to finger your arse first to loosen it up try the one finger first then add 2 or 3. when this feels ok use a lube durex do a good one sounds awful but put plenty around your hole and on his cock then gently get him to slide in to you. it will feel weird and sore to start with it may take several sex sessions for you to take it all but u will get there!doggy is a good position but so is you on your back with your legs in the air against his chest he can then pleasure both your holes so to speak!i enjoy being on top of him sitting on his cock but wouldn't advise that for a first attempt as it will be full in.to help try using a vibe on your fanny while he is in your arse.failing that get so pissed and you won't feel a thing till the next day! lolhope it helps and most of all just relax and enjoy yourself you are only young so there is no rush!good luckx
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