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writes:I really need some answers, if anybody feels like they can help me then please feel free.....I am starting to feel like im falling apart in a way. I havent had a proper relationship in over a year now i feel like i just cant trust people. Normal things have happend to me parents divorced when i was 8, my first love cheated on me but i just cant seem to get over these things. im trying to hold myself together but it all seems to be drowning me. have starting drinking a bit lately as it makes me feel numb and then i feel like i can get though everything
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007): I have to agree that drinking isnt the answer but I do understand what you are going through and how you are feeling. I think I may beable to give you a different perspective of things, if you private mail me I will do my best to help.
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reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (20 November 2007):
 We've all gone through this, and I agree that drinking is not the answer.
HOWEVER, if you're going out with your mates, having a few drinks and a good time and forgetting your pain for a little while, go for it. That's what I do when I'm feeling down, but you need to let it be the fact you're enjoying yourself that makes you "numb" to your pain and not simply the effects of alcohol.
I too haven't had a proper relationship since last christmas and it gets me down too, but turning to substances will not help, friends and having a good time though, will.
good luck and please feel free to email me
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007): Drinking is not the answer, so please dont go down that path, it will lead to destruction, mainly of your liver! So be aware of your health even if you are going through this low right now. I sympathise with you for all you have been through but not all blokes are like this. You are young and you will meet someone who you so rightly deserve but they wont want to go out with a drunk!! Give the drink a bit miss, go out with your friends or maybe take up a hobby or sport and get out there and meet people and be happy.
take care
xx
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