A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I had maintained romantic feelings for one of my friends for some time. However, I believe that she is starting to pick up on them and is reacting oddly, being that she is in a relationship. How do you think i should go about changing her mind (making her think I do not like her)? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anne marie  +, writes (19 November 2007):
If you still have feelings for this person and she is behaving differently towards you depending on how different she is being with you, Is she giving you the impression that she has feelings for you or is she being distant with you and off hand if so then I would distance myself from the situation for a while however if she is giving the impression that she possibly has feelings for you too then I would sit down with her and talk to her about it, otherwise you will never know what might have been.
Good Luck
A
male
reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (19 November 2007):
 This is tricky as potentially, you could seem distant and make it appear you don't like her even as a friend, which would be too cruel.
One option that could work, just get into a conversation and mention a girl you find attractive, and say so. It's showing interest in someone else which could make her go "maybe he isn't attracted to me" without making her think you don't like her at all
...............................
|
