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*ootsie
writes:I met a guy and we connected straight away, we've been out on 3 dates and agreed to meet again, however all he seems to do is send me texts and wont firm up a date, this has now gone on for weeks. he keeps asking me if i want to see him again and I say yes but he then just sends me endless texts and doesnt firm up a date ??
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reader, Tootsie +, writes (20 November 2007):
Tootsie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTnx....although he seems very keen, I think deep down i know if you really want to see someone you make the effort, theres no excuse...
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007): Give him an ultimatum! Set a date and if he cannot or wont be there then tell him to get lost and to stop playing games. He will either move on or sharpen up and want to make a date. Dont be messed around. Does he have another gf or wife in the background that makes it impossible to make and keep a date. He wouldnt be the first.
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reader, Tootsie +, writes (20 November 2007):
Tootsie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks its good to get male perspective, I think i need to delete as i have sent him messages telling him how I feel and not to contact me again but I cant get rid of him...he still texts about meeting up....I mean why bother if its not going to happen....
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (20 November 2007):
 I'm afraid I think you have picked a dud there mate.
Personally I dont understand it, but I have heard it so many times though: guy likes girl, tells her he is mad about her,soon only calls once in a while, loses interest - meets new girl, starts cycle again - these are commitment phobes I believe.
I have a friend in a situation just like you , I have even met this guy, he is a really nice bloke, she has totally fallen for him, now he just cant be bothered says he loves her but doesnt do anything, he never turns up when he says he will and breaks future plans all the time - when he can be bothered to talk to her at all. This guy is single and 46 for crying out loud . She's now deleted his number from her phone. Thats why I said I have difficulty understanding these guys.
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