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writes:ok i will be as detailed as i can, been with my partner 20 years in the summer he told me had been with a few prostitutes he only told me coz he had fallen for one!!!! anyway i said i will try and forgive him we have talked and talked it turns out the one of the reasons he went looking for sex is coz our sex life is very routine.boring for both of us!!! so he suggested we need to spice our sex up a bit we have always fantasied about having sex with different partners in front of each other we tried it he loved it i didnt find it as thrilling as him. we again talked and talked and i dont mind a woman touching him (i do love him) im not jelous of that i just dont want a bloke touching me!! we have joined swinging sites and he talks to people, about swinging i cant understand how he gets turned on with women that aint nothing to look at so why get turned on? now he got a mood on as ive said i dont want no part of this sex with other people am i being unreasonable. why is he so attracted to this way of having sex ( he doesnt want full sex just playing with women and women playing with him) help me understand him
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reader, JTalbott  +, writes (26 May 2008):
 Swinging under pressure because you're concerned he'll get upset and become involved with a prostitute doesn't sound like fun.
Do you really want to stay in this relationship? My guess is that you know what the right answer is for you.
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (11 December 2007):
 Find a guy who want you and you only. Ditch this creep.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2007): I don't understand him either, and personally I find all of this a bit grubby. But it is not my relationship it's yours.In a way my only advise to you is to think about what you want, beleive in and want to live with. What is your moral compass on these issues. It is actually not his call to get you feeling that your being unreasonable if you don't want to participate, it's your call and your decision. It's your body. I think he has manipulated you into accepting that this behaviour is required now in your relationship. He has found a way for his adulterous behavior and attention to prostitution and sleeze to be acceptable in your lives.I would have thought that there may have been many,many other steps just involving the two of you - husband and wife - to rejuvinate a tired sex life. You have both gone to extreme methods and it is going to backfire after the blinkers come off!
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (11 December 2007):
 I wouldn't want some other guy touching me either!!!!
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