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30-35,
*ceBox
writes:My boyfriend and I have been having sex for over a year and we have never had any problems. Until now, he will get hard but as soon as I want to be on top he goes limp. Any advice as to what's wrong?
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reader, IceBox +, writes (12 December 2007):
IceBox is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your responses. I will take all of your advice into consideration and try it out. Thanks again
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reader, Sandman +, writes (11 December 2007):
 Hmmm, maybe it's as simple as gravity.
I remember when having sex with the woman on top I would sometimes lose my erection. It wasn't that I was not aroused enough because I was. It wasn't because I was afraid something would happen to me because I wasn't. I think it was something so simple as gravity causing the blood to flow down from the penis and thus the hardness or the erection is lost with along with it.
Some of my most intense orgasms have been with the woman on top. I really enjoy woman on top positions, but gravity doesn't.
Hope this helps.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (11 December 2007):
 Hi,
this is not as uncommon a problem as one might think.
It generally has to do with the man fearing that the woman is going to "break" his penis if she is too vigorous on top.
Of course there are men who refuse to let woman go on top as they are chauvenistic, but your bf doesnt sound like this.
One way to get around it is to move him to the bottom when you are entangled. i.e. pull him close when he is inside you wrap your arms and legs around him and simply swap positions by rolling over you will then end up on top , but make sure you stay entangled so the position is no different for him, if you take it easy and with some practice you can end by sitting upright on him.
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reader, keith5 +, writes (11 December 2007):
 If its not a condition or anything, maybe you should just try arousing him when your switching positions. A guy always wants to make his partner feel good and it may stress him causing him to lose his hardness. Just try turning him on by talking/touching him sexually
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (11 December 2007):
 He doesn't like you being on top. It stimulates him less, because he's not doing the pushing in and out.
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