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writes:Hey,Been thinking a lot lately, and can't stop thinking about doing somehting with another guy. Don't know if I really want to have sex yet or anything, but I've really fantasized a lot about giving a blowjobto another guy, and also curious about having a threesome with 2 other guys. Don't really know where to start, or how to find someone I'll like to do this with. what I guess I'm, asking, is how to go about finding someone, and would a male escorting service be a feasible option??
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reader, 17Irish17  +, writes (5 March 2008):
I was in the same situation! I wanted to know what it was like to give another guy a blow job. I looked in the personal ads and called a few. One in particular I got to know pretty well. I went over to his house and gave him a blow job. We did not have anal. I wasnt into that. I have found that after I give a blow job, I dont want to do it again for a while. Then about 6 months to a year later I get the urge again, and call my friend. It works out well for the both of us. I would say I am bisexual, not gay. I just like blow jobs.I hope this helps. If you have any further questions, please feel free to email me.Good luck
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reader, lboy  +, writes (29 December 2007):
 dear reader,
i do not advise using a male escort as it is soooooo not worth the money lol.
i think that the best way for you to find someone that u like would be to join a free gay chat site for gay men in your area this is how i met my current bf and i am seriously in love now lol.
i think that this really would be the best way to find someone in your area and then over the site talk to them then maybe move ontop msn and talk to them get to know them maybe do a few webcam chats and then, when the time is right, meet up with him and if the both of you decide u like each other then have sex and then maybe get into a relationship then after a month or two if you are still fantacising about a 3some then ask him if he knows anyone that would be up to it.
anyway this is all the advice i can give you, good luck, and write back to let us know ho0pw things go.
good luck
lboy
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reader, Stupid Lullabies +, writes (13 December 2007):
You don't need to experiment or try things out to find out if you are gay or bi, or what you're into. First off, you know who you are attracted to and what turns you on, and secondly, gay, bi, straight are just labels. You don't have to take on a label, if you want to describe your sexuality in words there is no one better than you to decide how to do that.
The one thing I would stress is that being gay or bi is not just about having either a physical attraction to or wanting to engage in sexual activity with the same sex, it is about romantic attraction, emotional and physical. (I should know, I am gay)
If you really are set on experimenting with other guys then I would urge extreme caution with even meeting anyone that you do not know. Even if you can handle yourself, you need to make sure the other person (or persons) are clean, ie have a certificate from a GP stating that they are free from STDs and STIs, that you have protection prepared and that you and they both know explicitly what the limits and boundaries are. Someone else should also know where you are and who you are with. If at all possible, if you are really set on experimenting, ask someone you know who is gay or bisexual just general questions, show an interest and they might be able to give you a safer option.
However overall I would urge you not to act on your fantasies, if you are in all other respects, straight. As all I can see if you go down this road is embarrasment, disappointment and regret.
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reader, xmeganx +, writes (11 December 2007):
 it probably would be your best option...no strings attached and id reckon a lot safer situation. Then if you didnt like it, you wont have to worry about a spurned lover!!
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reader, alieP91  +, writes (11 December 2007):
 Yes it would but if your thinking of doing that then you would like to tell them before you go in and find someone who is wanting a serious relationship. And no this doesn't mean your gay it just means that you want to try something new, everyone wants to try something out of their comfort circle every once in a while. Try it and get back to me, even if you just want to ask more questions
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