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writes: I have been dating this girl for over 2 months and previously dated her in the spring but she broke it off! After missing each other she asked me out and we got back together. I love this girl and she tells me that she wants to be with me but she doesnt do anything special or even act like she wants to see me, when i ask her about this she simply says that she sucks at relationships! We are both new to long tern relationships. What should i think of her being distant and confused?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2007): It's frustrating when the other person does not put out as much energy as you do. Maybe she is not ready for a relationship. Maybe she is too young and you are more mature...
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (11 December 2007):
 If you had already broken up once before, perhaps relationship doesn't have what it takes to go the distance. Perhaps she "sucks at relationships", or maybe she doesn't see this as anything more than casual. Ask her if she wants a deeper emotional connection, ask her what kind of relationnship this is and if it has some kind of future. Communicate! Now is the time to try on different relationships to figure out what kind you want to have. If she doesn't want more from you, you might want more from her, but she may not be capable of giving it. I think it's up to you if you can deal with it remaining as it is or perhaps you should consider seeing other people. You are the only one who can decide if it is satifying enough right now or if you need to be more deeply connected to someone. If that's the case, you may be disappointed staying with her and expecting that to develop. Or maybe it's fine for now! Good Luck with Everything.
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